Ever felt guilty for using after-school club, holiday club, childcare, or asking for help?
In this episode, I’m talking about something many parents carry quietly: the guilt and shame of needing support.
Whether you’re the last parent at pickup, relying on wraparound care to make life work, or trying to parent an intense, sensitive, or neurodivergent child without a village around you, this episode is for you.
I explore why support isn’t failure, why childcare can be a form of scaffolding rather than a sign you’re not coping, and why taking care of yourself is often one of the most caring things you can do for your child.
Because your child isn’t in childcare because you don’t care.
They’re there because you do.
In this episode, we cover:
- Why modern parenting was never meant to be done alone
- The guilt many parents feel about needing childcare and support
- Parenting intense, sensitive and neurodivergent children
- Why support is scaffolding, not failure
- The impact of burnout on family life
- How childcare can help you recover, regulate and reconnect
- Releasing the shame of not being able to do it all yourself
If you’ve ever wondered whether you’re a bad parent for needing a break, I hope this episode offers a gentler perspective.
If you’re a woman navigating ADHD, perfectionism, burnout, or the pressure of holding everything together, I’d love to invite you to explore how we can support you.
To get my latest unhinged musings and get inspiration for how you can better meet your own emotional needs, make sure to get my Friday newsletter here:
www.thethomasconnection.co.uk/newsletter
If you’re a woman navigating ADHD, perfectionism, burnout, or the pressure of holding everything together, I’d love to invite you to explore how we can support you.
To get my latest unhinged musings and get inspiration for how you can better meet your own emotional needs, make sure to get my Friday newsletter here:
www.thethomasconnection.co.uk/newsletter
